Thursday, March 31, 2016

Grandmama's Visit

Bert's mom came up for a visit last week and we appreciate all her help so much!!  

Here she was getting some Abby snuggles one morning while I was feeding the big girls breakfast.  


She and Claire read lots of books.  Claire LOVES to be read to and once you start reading to her she insists you keep going.  As soon as you finish the book she'll say "I go get nudder one."


The girls were soooo excited about Grandmama painting their nails!  Claire actually sat perfectly still...she wants to be just like her big sisters.  


Grandmama played long games of hide and seek with the girls.  When it was Hannah's turn to count, she would count until about 5 or 6 and then decide it was time to go find them....if you're playing with her you better hide FAST!  

We once again had beautiful weather.  Here they are playing some frisbee one afternoon, while Abby was snuggled up on my chest in the shade.  


Not only did Grandmama play and play with the girls but she also cooked 4 big meals which we were able to freeze and it is enough to feed our family 9 different nights.  What a huge blessing!!  In fact, we're pulling one of them out tonight and I'm so looking forward to not having to think twice about dinner tonight!  

Grandmama with 4 of her grandbabies, holding her newest!  


Thanks so much for coming up and spending the week with us, Grandmama!  We enjoyed having you and we're so thankful for all the ways that you showed your love to us!!


Wednesday, March 23, 2016

First Couple Weeks

Our Abby  has been home and in our arms just over 2 weeks and it has been wonderful.  She is soooo laid back and has won the award for being our best sleeper yet, which is saying something because Emily, Hannah and Claire were all GREAT sleepers.  To celebrate being 2 weeks old Abby slept 6 hours straight in her pack-n-play the night before she turned 2 weeks.  She had consistently been doing 4 to 5 hour stretches for the 4 or 5 nights prior to that.  I'm sure we still have some rough nights ahead, but we are so proud of our good sleeper and we're enjoying having the consecutive hours of sleep.  

I took this picture when she was about 3 days old just after she had finished nursing.  She had a full belly and couldn't have been more relaxed.  


I love her cute smirk in the picture below.  


This little 2 year old is just down right cute.  She's talking ALL day long and while we can understand most everything she is saying it's still in her cute 2 year old voice, which makes most everything she is saying extra adorable.  She loves saying "That's nummy!" when she likes something that we've given her to eat.  She replaces "I" with "My" at almost every opportunity.  She is also liking to pretend....she tells Bert often "my Daddy" (pointing to herself and meaning "I'm Daddy"), "you KK" (pointing to him).


One evening Hannah said she was going to feed her Minnie and when I looked up this is what she was doing.  She was quite proud of herself.  :)


A couple of cute pictures of our little sweetie...



The first week was the hardest, which I guess is normal, but this first week seemed extra hard to me.  I basically only held her when I was nursing her and even then I wore a mask and gloves.  I was still coughing a lot and was scared to death I was going to get her (or someone else in the house) sick.  I didn't get to hold the other girls either and by the end of the first week I was in desperate need of a hugs and snuggles from all of my babies.  Bert and my mom were champions.  They basically did everything for everybody that first week as I tried to rest and recover from the flu and delivery (flu recovery being way worse).  I never got more than 2 hours of sleep at a time because she would be ready to nurse again, but I was thankful for those two hour stretches.  For the first week Bert and Mom split the night in half....Mom took her from 9 - 2 at night and then Bert took the 2am -7am shift.  I would come out and nurse her every few hours, but they were determined that I wouldn't do anything other than that as we all wanted me to get well as quickly as possible.  

I ended up having a little trouble with my milk supply and we had to supplement with formula for 2 days before my milk started coming in.  The lactation consultants felt like it was definitely due to me having the flu.  I hadn't had any trouble with my milk coming in with Hannah and Claire and it's supposed to come in faster the more babies you have.  I also didn't have much of an appetite the first week or so after I had Abby.  I did eat and drink, but not because I was hungry. I also probably wasn't drinking enough because I was wearing a mask so much of the day.  Anyway, I was sooooo thankful when my milk finally came in by the end of the first week.  It was SO important to me to be able to nurse her.  

I took this picture one night at 3am.  Abby was about 3 days old.  He was feeding her a bottle to supplement after I had just nursed her.  He's such an amazing husband and Daddy and I'm thankful he's mine.  


These yummy cake pops were a special request that I had and Mimi was happy to oblige. 


The weather was absolutely beautiful those first couple weeks after Abby was born.  One afternoon Bert got home from work and told the big girls they were going to get to help him plant some seeds for this summer's garden.  He wanted to plant them early so that they would get a head start on growing.  He'll plant them in the ground in a few weeks.  The girls were soooo excited about this project.  



My mom stayed with us about 2 weeks after we had Abby, which is a little longer than she usually stays after we have a baby, but with me getting over being sick she decided I needed a little extra help and she was right.  We were SO thankful to have her.  She cooked, cleaned, did laundry, played with the big girls outside, did car-line pick ups, held Abby into the wee hours of the morning, and gave me pep talks when I was discouraged and down about not being able to hold and snuggle my baby.  My mom is one of my very best friends and one of my favorite people to hang out with.  

Mimi got lots of Abby snuggles.  


My brother came over to Greenville to meet his newest niece on Friday (Abby was 5 days old).  It looks like she saying "enough with the pictures" in the picture below. 


Snuggled up with Uncle Stan taking a nap.  


Papa came over on Abby's 1-week birthday.  He was so glad to be able to see her in person (FaceTime is nice, but not the same).  He was much better, but not 100% so he wore his mask while holding her.  They stayed snuggled up like this for most of the afternoon.  Holding babies and letting them sleep on his chest just happens to be his specialty.  


Our big girls were super excited to see Papa too!!  


Emily and Hannah love playing with (attacking) Uncle Stan.  


On Monday evening (Abby was just over a week old) we had a CRAZY HUGE hail storm.  Everyone that we talked to that got hit with the worst of it said they had never seen or heard anything like it in their life.  Even our 90 year old neighbor said he had never seen a hail storm like we had that evening.  It was unbelievably loud and lasted almost 10 minutes.  Now we have to get estimates on getting our cars and roof fixed....booo.  



This was the first time I had held Abby with my mask off so we had to get a picture of it.  She was just over a week old.  Just checking each other out.



When she was about a week and a half, we had some newborn pictures taken of Abby.  Mom was there to wrangle (and I do mean wrangle) Claire while our photographer was taking pictures of Bert and me with Abby.  


Claire, once again, wasn't totally in the mood to be told where to sit and to smile for each picture.  2 year olds for ya.  I *think* Libby was able to get some good ones though.  Look at this cute smile that we got with our phone camera though?!  Sweet thing.  


We only had to supplement with formula for 2 days.  When we took Abby to the doctor at 3 days old she had dropped to 8lbs 3oz (she was 8lbs 11oz at birth).  They expect them to lose weight and want them to be back to birth weight by 2 weeks. I took her back for a checkup at 10 days old and she was 9lbs even!  Woohoo...go Abby!  


I have a picture of all 4 of our girls on this blanket during that first week after they were born.  My great-grandmother (my mom's grandmother) crocheted the flowers, and my mom and her sister found them in a box in my grandmother's closet after she passed away a few months before Emily was born. They had it made into a blanket just before I had Emily.  It's such a beautiful, special blanket to our family.


Aunt Katherine and Ressie drove to Greenville to meet Abby one evening.  Aunt Katherine loved getting snuggles and Ressie loved playing with her cousins! 


Abby was 2 weeks old in the picture below.  Cutie! 


Abby, I am especially loving being able to kiss your face and snuggle with you now that I am well.  You're a joy and an incredible blessing to our family!  We love you! 

Tuesday, March 22, 2016

Abby and Her Sisters

Abby's sisters couldn't have been more excited about meeting her!  

These next several pictures were taken about 30 minutes after we got home from the hospital.  Emily was so excited she was about to burst.  I love her sweet expressions in the next couple pictures.  



She has told us several times over the first couple weeks that she would stay up with Abby all night so that we could sleep.  She'd said "I'll keep her happy.  I really don't mind."  She'd probably only make it until 9:30, but it's most definitely the thought that counts.  Sweet thing. 



Hannah was VERY excited too get to hold Abby too!  I love it when her whole face lights up when she smiles.  


Claire wasn't interested in holding her that first day so we didn't push it at all, but she did carry around her baby doll a lot of the night.  I've also caught her putting her baby down on a blanket for "tummy time."  


Only one was looking at the camera and she wasn't smiling, but I had to document our first picture of all 4 of our girls together, taken just an hour or so after we got home from the hospital.  


Bert got this picture of them one morning after they had just woken up and were watching a show together.  Good gracious I love them.  


Hannah probably asks to hold Abby the most, although Emily is a close second.  I truly don't think it's an exaggeration to say she asks to hold her about once an hour.  They are both very interested in (obsessed with) their little sister.  :)


These next two pictures were taken when Abby had only been home about a day.  Emily and Claire were just checking her out.  



Then Em decided to read her a book.  Emily is doing so well with her reading...it's so fun having a little reader!



After a couple days Claire decided she wanted in on this holding action. I love that they are both in their footie pajamas.  



It got SO warm about the time that Abby was born.  It's been wonderful...I've loved having the warmer temps so that the big girls could play outside and I could feel the warm sunshine on my face. However, these warmer temps snuck up on me this year and our poor children hardly had any short sleeve shirts or pants available to wear.  All their spring/summer clothes were in the attic and I was definitely not making the season clothes swap that first week after Abby got home, so they just had to make do.  After she had been home about a week and a half and it was still warm and beautiful, I decided we had to make the big clothes swap happen.  Notice their mismatched outfits in the picture below....this was before the clothes swap. Also, every picture I took had Claire in motion.  Cuties!



I love these next two pictures.  I love all their smiles and their outfits and I love that they love each other. 





Abby, you have 3 big sisters who love you so much!  I truly believe that siblings are some of the greatest gifts, and I know I'm biased but you have 3 of the BEST! :)  

Monday, March 21, 2016

Coming Home

I guess I was less nervous than I was when we brought Emily home, but I was definitely still nervous. It's just crazy to me that they let us bring home this tiny little needy, precious person.  


Abigail was ready to hit the road and go meet her sisters.  


Daddy had gone to get the car and Abby and I got wheeled down to the front of the hospital.  



Sitting with my baby on her first car ride.  She did great!  


We've stopped at Chick-Fil-A on the way home from the hospital with all four kids now.  It's a tradition.  This time we just happened to be leaving the hospital about 5:30 so we picked up dinner on the way home in addition to our milkshake treat.


Mimi and the girls had picked up a beautiful pink bow for the mailbox and a cute balloon to welcome our girl home!  


First family picture.  Claire was not in the mood.  


I didn't feel great and I was SUPER stressed about not getting ANYONE sick with the flu, but I was still glad to be home with all four of my babies under one roof.  Very thankful!